I have a lot of "guilt" associated with food, especially when it comes to my kids. In general I feel like it is my job, as a mom, to instill healthy eating habits in my children and make sure they get all the nutrition they can now. When they *leave the nest* they can do whatever they want. But, I can bet that when they are on the therapist couch or in the doctors office they won't be saying "my dad....", it's always "my mom....". My husbands job, when it comes to food is to get the drinks ready for dinner. Wait, I take that back, he grills (and, by they way is an awesome griller!). I pick the menus, I come up with the latest "rule" about food in our house (like only fruit or veggies in between meals), I do the research, I do the grocery shopping, and I am the one that falls short, most times. Really, I try, but I am just lazy.
In a perfect world I would make (most) things from scratch, we would eat lots of fruits and veggies, we would never take a trip through the drive through, my kids would love all my meals, there would be wonderful dinner conversation (with no fighting, arguing or "I don't like this"), and I am pretty sure I would be a size 8. But, I don't live in a perfect world! We do our best with fruits and veggies, we don't eat many prepackaged foods... you get the point. And I feel guilty for every short cut I take!